The Dueling Voices of Change

Stepping into a new chapter isn’t a quiet, peaceful moment.  

The closer you move toward the unknown, the louder the voices are that clamour for your attention. (And, usually not the helpful ones.) 

While we wish smooth and serene would lead the way, those friends arrive later. Until then, you can gently guide the chatter back to thinking that serves you. 

What I hear in women navigating career, business, or job change is that one voice likes to sit in sadness. This mood reminds us of what we’re leaving behind, and tells us we shouldn’t go yet. Waiting, it says, is better. The other voice smiles and redirects us toward what we really want, pointing us to the path.

Energize that voice. 

If you’re heading into a new season, that means it’s time to summon courage and faith in yourself. Despite what the other voice is shouting, you are ready. Much like raising kids, no manual applies. There’s no one-size-fits-all. The answer is always one step at a time.

I’ve been through enough life transitions to recognize fear’s sneaky tactics and how comfort zones hold us back. I’ve learned it’s healthy to acknowledge hard or sad emotions - not ignore them. Honor the years (maybe decades) in a role, a career, a place, with a team, or your business. Of course you feel big emotions. This is life. And it’s time for a new story.

Here’s the good news: Two things can be true at one time.

When that loud, unhelpful voice comes calling, decline the invitation. Look ahead and imagine the options, the different opportunities, and greater fulfillment. How will this new season be fun? What are you thrilled to leave behind?! Ask questions you want to answer.

Another truth: growth and fulfillment thrive in the mystery. They glide along the horizon; they ride on the open road. Like sun on your face and wind in your sails. They require you to be willing to try, to explore and hear what’s calling you. They ask you to have your own back. 

Remember, closing one chapter doesn’t mean you leave it all behind. 

Build on your strong foundation. 

New chapters invite the best things to ride along with us, knowing there’s more to come. 

When you’re ready for a luxurious travel companion on this journey of change, I invite you to explore Pathways & Possibilities. A beautiful reflection card series that offers gentle prompts, time to pause to see what’s emerging, and inspiration for what’s next. All at your own pace.